Sunday, April 25, 2010

Our boy likes to sleep

We've had the idea that about the only thing we can really shape in Dawson's first year are his sleep habits. I've posted on these before, our struggles and successes. Well, Dawsie loves his sleep, he needs his sleep and he knows when it's time to go to bed.

About a month ago, Grandma Kim was watching him while we were out. Now Kim likes to keep Dawson up as long as possible to spend as much time with him as she can. This night Dawson let his Grandma know it was time for bed. At 8:00, which is about as late as he can stay up, Dawson crawled down the hall, sat in front of the closed door to his bedroom and cried. Think about that, he was begging his Grandma to let him go to bed.

That's awesome.

Now just tonight, Erin had just bathed Dawson and put on his diapers when her dad called. She took the phone into Dawson's room and sat in the rocking chair while talking with her dad.
Dawson crawled into his room, popped his binkie in his mouth, grabbed a few books from the nightstand and tried crawling into his mommy's lap.

Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child stated it's very important to set up a bedtime routine for small children, so they begin preparing for sleep. The book never mentioned that the child might be the one to enforce the routine.

An Exceptional Charmer















I've heard it so many times that I've finally stopped fighting it, "Your son is such a pretty baby / boy." Instead of saying, "he's not pretty he's handsome," I just smile and say "thanks."
I don't know if he'll always have this skill but Dawson puts his good looks to work in charming other people.
A great example was last Monday night, when a lady from Parents as Teachers came over to meet with us. After getting over his initial shyness, Dawson started showing off for Ann. He started by just being flirty, then he began pulling pillows off the coach and launching himself onto them. He worked everyone, including himself, into a good fit of laughter. Dawson is certainly a charmer.

But he's also exceptional, at least according to Ann. She kept giving him the age appropriate tests to see whether his cognitive and motor skills had developed to the point at which they should be. And with just one exception (a big exception I'll write about in a second) Dawson passed all of them. He could stack blocks, pick up things with his fingers, stand up, etc.

What he's not doing yet is walking. Every stage (crawling, rolling over, etc.) Dawson has been patient and cautious, waiting until he could do it with ease. He's taking an even more cautious approach to walking. Recently, he'd stand for a moment before realizing he was standing on his own and then, once he realized it, would quickly sit back down. He gets mad if we try to have him stand or walk, too. Within a few days, however he's started standing straight up from a walking toy or something and begin clapping his hands while standing for a good 30 seconds. He'll even take a step or two before going back into a crawl. It seems he'll start walking almost reluctantly and accidentally.

After our meeting with Ann, we took Dawson outside for a stroll along the sidewalk on his John Deere ATV. He's pushing it along the sidewalk or riding it himself, careful to steer clear of the grass. Dawson walked over to the neighbors East of us and charmed the wife, Robin for awhile.

But I think Dawson grew tired of charming adults and decided to try someone closer to his age. So he decided to put the moves on the cute neighbor girl, Gabby. Gabby isn't too much older for Dawson, just old enough to be in his 'league' but still a challenge.

So, he pushed the ATV over to Gabby, started talking with her, then made his big move. He got off his ATV and got onto Gabby's bike with her. I thought it was pretty smooth but Gabby wasn't too sure. Once Gabby's dad came back outside with a shotgun, Dawson decided it was time to head for home...

In the top picture, Dawson is waving at some dogs walking by. Dawson has started to take quite a liking to dogs. When he hears one barking, he'll look around for it and say "gog." When he sees a dog, either an actual dog or one in a picture, he does his best bark imitation. I wanted to spell his 'bark' phonetically, but I just can't figure out how to do it.

Balls and Books



About 2 months ago, Dawson discovered a "bahl." A ball is still one of his favorite things. He crawls at a dead sprint toward a ball, grasps it firmly and then holds it over his head with a celabratory "bahl"! He then throws it, chases it, picks it up and proceeds to throw it again - a solo game of catch.
Dawson's other favorite activity is to read. He is constantly sitting down with a book and turning through the pages. Sometimes he'll point stuff out on pages, like a "bahl," which is anything that is round or the balls on the Baby's first Hawkeye Book.
Now, we never taught Dawson to like balls - that's all original to him. We have however, been reading to him since day one. So I'm proud to say his reading is a learned behavior.
If Dawson likes to play ball and read all the while he's growing up, we're sure going to have a lot in common.

Balloons



As you can see from these pictures, Dawson had a lot of balloons for his 1st Birthday. Thy floated around the house for several weeks after the party. And he just discovered a sick looking balloon behind his crib three days ago.
I didn't get any pictures or video of the incident I'm about to describe, so I'm blogging it to hep us remember.
One morning, not long after waking, I was playing with Dawson in his room when he decided to go after some stray balloons. He was able to hold one and shake it around while the other kept bouncing just above his head. Eventually, the 'free' balloon built up enough static that it stuck to the back of Dawson's head. As Dawson kept twirling around, looking for the balloon, it would detach momentarily and then come to rest again just above the back of his head. As the balloon settled back down on his back, Dawson would giggle/squeal in joy, twirl around - generally having the time of his life. I've seen Dawson do a lot of heart-meltingly adorable things, but that might be an all-time favorite memory.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Attempts at Chatter

Dawson's vocabulary is slowly growing. Here are some words that he uses that we can distinguish from the other Chinese-like babble that we hear. :)


Mama (mama or mom)
Dada (dada or dah)
Bye (bah with a wave)
Bird (buh)
Ball (Bah - repetitively)
Yum (Mmmmm)
Quack (Kack kack)
Hi (hi)
Eye (ah)

Wednesday, April 14, 2010